We frequently hear mention of how the brain is our largest sexual organ yet fail to recognize the role it plays in female sexual enjoyment and orgasm. The brain is what enables the clitoris to be something other than just an extra piece of tissue. You cannot feel pleasure if your brain will not permit [...]
When I was young, I always believed sex “meant something”, and it wasn’t simply something that was taught to me — it was instinctive.
When I grew up and entered the adult world, tons of people told me that sex was meaningless and I was just being on old-fashioned Priestess. Being naive (and trusting the wrong [...]
Women go out with guys for many reasons. Some are looking for love and some are looking for companionship. But some look for other things. Some women look for guys with money. They feel that you can love someone if they have enough money because they can buy you everything you‘ve always dreamed of. So [...]
Most people would think a man wants a good looking woman. Foremost, last and always. And though, as a man, I know where they’re coming from, what a man is really looking for is something much deeper than that. He is wanting something to reassure him that he is an alright guy, that he is [...]
Throughout the ages women have complained that their energetic partners, after reaching orgasm, fall asleep with nary a word of encouragement.
The typical male response, developed after years of evolutionary brainstorming, is that the exertion of stroking, sucking, thrusting, shifting and squirming for any time longer than, say, ten seconds, makes it impossible to keep one’s [...]
Dove, the company famous for its “99 percent pure” soap, launched the “Campaign for Real Beauty”, an ad campaign designed to challenge unrealistic images of women in advertising. One ad features a curvy young woman, and poses the question “over-sized or outstanding?”. It invites women to go to the Dove website to cast their vote [...]
Love is …. Well, of course, the raison d’être. But love, moreover, still, is the rock, which our hearts and hopes break on, like waves.
People are different in general. And yet, we piously believe that “perfect love” is indivisible with full consent in everything. And we hope to realize our own desires and needs with [...]
Women constantly complain about not being able to find a suitable mate. This is a easily correctable situation. Change the selection process. You see, women and men differ in one major area of selecting a stable mate. Women love with their hearts first and brains second. By the time they discover the guy is a [...]
Men say that they are not afraid to commit if the right woman comes along. Not the one that they’ve already been in a long term relationship with mind you. The new one that they’re hoping comes along to replace the old faithful. Single women often complain that their significant other just wont set the [...]
Men: perhaps the most frustrating of all the beasts. Will women ever truly understand their thoughts? Is it possible for us to think from their point of view? Should we be careful what we wish for?
All jokes aside, perhaps if women start thinking like men, it would make this whole man/woman relationship a bit easier. [...]
Men are about as different as women as to their erogenous zones and how they like to be touched. It takes all kinds of touching experiments over the weeks and months of a relationship to find the spots a particular man enjoys best. Just don’t expect these all to work on the next guy.
Very light [...]
Kissing is one of those pastimes that never gets old. And while you may have your lip-locking skills down-pat, it can be fun to try new things. There are several different types of kissing techniques – some good, some bad and some just plain ugly.
Pay attention to what your partner responds to, and what seems [...]
A willingness to be vulnerable is a significant feature of lasting relationships — ones in which partners are allies, not foes.
The need to form a mutually protective alliance is innate, according to psychoanalyst John Bowlby. This need persists throughout life; the search to be both cared for and caregiver underlies falling in love.
Long-lasting couples manage [...]
Do you feel like your man is giving you the run around? Ladies, take notes.
The Telephone Lover
When he says, “I’ll call you.”
He actually meant, “If we don’t call you, it’s because we don’t want you.”
One in a Million
When he says “It only happened once.”
What he really meant was, “Nine times out of ten, if it [...]
Do men lie more than women?
Researchers say no. Some believe women lie more than men.
So why are there a half-dozen books specifically about men lying to women?
Why is this the topic of countless afternoon talk shows? Why did many of the women who read the first line of this story probably think to themselves, “Whatever [...]
Ah spooning, who doesn’t love it? If you’re answer was “me”, then you are clearly dead on the inside. For the rest of us, it is a grand ol’ time. It is one of the most wonderfully innocently intimate things you can experience with somebody. The problem, of course, is that there are many small [...]
Are you in a long distance relationship or at least open to being in one? Do you and your sweetheart live too far apart to spend time in each other’s presence whenever you desire?
If so, then know that it will require creativity and commitment to sustain and deepen such a relationship. With imagination and determination, [...]
Soulmate is a term sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, and/or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul – which is thought to be the ultimate soulmate, the one and only other half of one’s [...]
One-night stands can be tricky to walk away from, especially the bad ones. When your hook-up lays there in his or her afterglow talking about how awesome it was, and you’re there thinking ‘Get me out of here,’ extricating yourself from this potentially awkward situation is tough.
You don’t want to seem rude, but when the [...]
At the hospital the family gathered in the waiting room, where a family member seriously ill. Finally, the doctor came in looking tired and serious. Surveying the worried faces, the doctor said, “I fear that I am the bearer of bad news. The only hope left for your beloved at this time is a brain [...]
Trying to make an ex jealous in an attempt to gain deeper affection is a common playing hard-to-get tactic advocated by some “experts” and practiced by many.
I know many men and women who’ve used this tactic and it’s worked in the short term, and many more who have used it and it back fired big [...]
I asked this question to one of my friends, and to my astonishment he answered me; “The fruits once bitten by squirrels are more tastier”. Men seems to have grown more lenient towards the concepts of virginity. Virginity is a stone age old concept and people are more over perplexed with different opinions when virginity [...]
Creep into the world of their secrets that are something you always suspected, something sweet, something you never thought about and something that’s ugly. Your man has all of them locked in his treasure box, with the keys hidden in the darkest of the rooms in the world. So get ready gals, to know your [...]
More often in the world of relationships, it is the men who cheat, rather than the fairer sex. Due to several factors, men are much more likely to cheat than women, and prevention is better than cure. Sometimes when he begins cheating, there will be no “cure”. So take actions quickly to prevent cheating from [...]
When people hear the word shopaholic they probably think of a person that owns everything under the sun or someone who spends too much money on material things that is wealthy or just spoiled. Nothing could be further from the truth. Shopaholics are physically emotionally and mentally hooked on shopping.
Compulsive shopping is a serious condition [...]
As women continue to achieve their own economic power, and sexual taboos get lifted every day, the notion of dating and marrying a younger man is a very real option for every woman.
Back in 2003, a study by AARP revealed that 34 percent of all women over 40 in the survey were dating younger men, [...]
Does the task of finding unique gifts for men seem repetitious? Dad gets a new tie every year. Your brother gets a bottle of cologne. The boss gets a mug with a funny golf saying. Instead of the same-old, same-old, why not get thoughtful and useful gifts picked with their personality and interests in mind? [...]
Fingernails are barometers of your health. If your diet and nutrition is poor, it shows through brittle, cracked and short nails. For many, women especially, nails are a sign of beauty. Perfectly manicured, long, nails are desirable. While some of your nail traits definitely come from your family genes, there are some things you can [...]
The key to a flawless face is an even skin tone. Even the most beautiful women in the world need a bit of help now and then.
Makeup expert Trish McEvoy taught me the key to a flawless face is not perfect eye makeup application or the right shade of lipstick. It’s evening out your skin [...]
A love triangle is a romantic relationship involving three people. While it can refer to two people independently romantically linked with a third, it usually implies that each of the three people has some kind of relationship to the other two. These relationships can be between friends, lovers, family members (often siblings), or even due to pre-existing [...]
